I remember learning about the ancient Chinese curse, “May you live in interesting times.” When I heard it, I didn’t quite understand why it was a curse. Who wouldn’t want to live in interesting times? The opposite was boring times and that didn’t sound like much fun. The older I got, the more I understood why this was a curse. Today, we certainly living in interesting times. Challenging times. Frustrating times. Sometimes it feels like hopeless times.
People have always interested me. How they think, why they make the choices that they make, and often times, how self-destructive they can be. Over the past decade, I have seen and written about the rise of antisemitism, of Jew hatred. When I began writing about and calling it Jew hatred, it was a controversial term. It no longer is controversial. Since October 7, 2023, the amount of public Jew hatred has been astounding. I always knew there were people who simply hated Jews and I met plenty of them. They always kept it quiet though. Nobody came out publicly with their Jew hatred, it was kept behind closed doors. Today, they wear it publicly like a badge of honor.
I just learned about a former employee, somebody that most of us who worked with not only liked but thought liked us, posted on social media, “zionist unfriend me silently challenge (impossible).” It was shocking to see, in part because I knew her differently that this post and also because I only saw it when a friend shared it with me because this person had unfriended me, likely because of my pro-Israel posts and advocacy. I was forwarded some of the interaction and it was sad to read. This person that I had known was clearly not the same. Her Jew hatred was clear and public. When asked about what happened to make her like this, her reply was that she had always felt this way, she just had to keep quiet “for a paycheck.” This made me even sadder, because if true, she sold out her integrity for a paycheck, lied and pretended to be friends with people she despised.

I’m not sure why it amazes me that people just believe what they are told. The amount of lies that get retold, over and over again as truth, just because somebody said it on social media or on TV is shocking. It doesn’t even take much investigation to find out that they are lies, yet people today can’t be bothered with that. They’d rather believe the lies. They’d rather feed the hate. Unlike the far right, which allows all hate, the one hate that is allowed by the progressive far left movement is Jew hatred. The rest is not permitted – say it about any group other than the Jews and you get cancelled. You become a pariah. But say it about the Jews and they make you a hero. A righteous fighter for the underdog no matter how heinous their behavior. It disgusts me.
For about a five (5) year period, from approximately 2018 – 2023, I was often interviewed on the TV news, public radio, or for the newspaper about the rise of antisemitism. I would always start by saying that we must speak out against ALL HATE. I would say how whatever group was facing the hatred today, it would eventually move on to another group and one day it would be your group facing the hate. That’s why we needed to stand up and speak out against all hate. I still believe that today, despite the fact that when it comes to Jew hatred, we often stand alone.
I am so appreciative of my non-Jewish friends and those in public positions who speak out against Jew hatred. They take a big risk and do so proudly and with honor. I am appreciative of my friends, Jewish and not-Jewish, who don’t know things and ask, begin conversations, and are willing to dig deep. Often they will apologize when asking a question and I stop them, thank them for asking, and encourage them to never fear a true and honest question. This past weekend, I was hanging out with a bunch of friends. I was engaged in a great conversation with one of them who told me that he never really knew anything about Israel, never really paid attention to anything, until he learned about my connection and my passion. He’d follow me on social media when I travel to Israel, began reading things to learn more, and asked some great questions. We had a really positive conversation where he opened up and asked questions he may have been afraid to ask before. I answered honestly, even when the answer was that Israel had done something wrong. It made me wonder what might have been different with the other person if she had been willing to engage in dialogue, learn, listen, and ask the hard questions instead of posting her offensive comment. I’ll never know the answer but I also know that I will never stop trying to have those real conversations. No matter how difficult or challenging they may be.
People don’t understand the difference between Israel attacking Hamas, Hezbollah, the Houthis, or Iranian military targets and military leaders and how Hamas, Hezbollah, the Houthis, and Iran attack civilians. They don’t understand the difference between Israel doing all they can to protect the civilians and how the others do all they can to attack and kill civilians.
I’m tired of the Americans (and others but mainly the Americans) who believe the lies. Who spread the lies. Who use them to express their Jew hatred. The true civilians in Gaza thank Israel and want freedom from Hamas. The Iranian people support Israel and want freedom from the Iranian regime. The lies only make it more difficult for them and help keep them living under tyranny. These ‘people’ who say they want to help by bashing Israel are doing exactly the opposite of helping. They are the ones who despite seeing the emperor having no clothes, rave out the outfit. They are the monkeys who ‘see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.’ They are the ones who embolden and empower evil.

The rest of us need to speak out and speak out loudly. We cannot sit back and be quiet and think they are showing how stupid they are, how bigoted they are. The longer we stay silent, the more they spread the lies and hate. I urge you to speak up. The cost of being quiet is too high.















