It’s always interesting learning Jewish things in Israel, especially in Jerusalem. Aryeh Ben David explored Chapter 3 of the beginning of the Torah with us. We talked about Adam and Eve being expelled from the Garden of Eden. The midrash (story from Rabbi’s) is that after being forbidden by God to eat from the tree of knowledge, it took them about 20 minutes to eat the apple. It is about temptation.
So why would God tempt Adam and Eve, knowing that they would fail the test and be expelled from the Garden of Eden? How do we do when told we can’t do something, especially something that sounds interesting, fun or would be totally awesome? A friend parks their Lamborghini in your driveway, gives you the keys, tells you they will be back in a month and that you CANNOT drive it. How long would it take before the temptation to just take it for a little spin would win out? He won’t know – it’s just a couple of miles. Temptation is all around us and our goal is to do the best we can to not fall into it.
It is easy to fall into temptation. We do it every day. Too much food. Delicious desserts. Some people it’s with sexual activity. Alcohol. Drugs. Buying expensive things that we can’t really afford. Temptation feels good. It’s immediate gratification. The consequences happen down the road and we don’t think about them when we are in the middle of enjoying the fruits of temptation. Adam and Eve didn’t think about what God would do if they ate the fruit they were told not to. The consequences came after.
How do we avoid temptation? What can we do to be more aware? That’s where structure comes in. That’s where gratitude comes in. Adam and Eve had everything, yet they still couldn’t appreciate what they had and risked everything because of temptation. The desire for more. They lost. Often times we do the same. We risk everything. Our health by eating too much, the wrong type of foods, or too many sweets. Our lives with drugs or alcohol. Our marriage and families with sexual desires and behavior. Sometimes we see the consequences and they are devastating, like Adam and Eve. Sometimes we get away with them, which only reinforces the behavior. It is like Las Vegas, and we are gambling with our lives. Just like in Vegas, we forget that the house ALWAYS WINS.
The second lesson we learned from Adam and Eve was to dream. It sounds strange to think of that since the story doesn’t seem to focus on dreams at all. Nobody ever told me that having dreams was part of Adam and Eve’s story. It was about obeying God and the consequences when you don’t. It was about being created in the image of God. But dreaming?
After being kicked out of the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve dreamed of finding a way back. When they realized they could never get back, they began to dream about how to make the world they now lived in as perfect as they could to resemble the Garden of Eden. That is the beginning of the Jewish value of Tikkun Olam, repairing the world. Adam and Eve tasted the perfect world and lost it. They, and their ancestors for thousands of years, would spend their time trying to recreate it.
Each of us has the ability to make the world a little more perfect. It’s not our job to make the whole world perfect. That’s too much for any of us. However, we do have the ability to do little things to make the world better. That’s the essence of the story of Adam and Eve. It’s not about how the snake convinced Eve or how Eve tempted Adam. It’s not about how God took Adam’s rib to make Eve. It’s about each of us doing our part to make the world a little bit more like the Garden of Eden.
It can sound overwhelming but it’s not. It is the little things. At our hotel in Jerusalem, I say hi and good morning to all of the people who work here. The man who cleans my room is a nice guy, we talk throughout the day when I see him. Instead of thinking of him as less than or pretending not to see him, I recognize him and treat him nicely. He does the same to me. Treating everybody as an equal human being makes the world a better place. That’s an easy thing for us all to do if we simply pay attention and make the effort.
Adam and Eve had a big dream to make the world resemble the Garden of Eden. Bigger dreams have bigger impacts. We know one thing for sure, we cannot achieve a dream that we don’t have. Dreamers in today’s world often get shut down. There are too many challenges, too many risks to dream. Yet it is dreamers who change the world. Steve Jobs used to dream about making devices that you didn’t even know you needed. The iPhone. The iPad. I remember the Thanksgiving discussion with my grandfather and my father about desktop computers. My grandfather was 100% certain that there was no way that every house would want, need, afford, or have a computer. In the end, he was right. In my house we don’t have one computer. We have 6 or 7 computers (including laptops) and that doesn’t include iPads, iPhones, Apple Watches, etc. Steve Jobs’ dream changed the world.
It isn’t just Steve Jobs though. I remember a few years ago reading about a man named Rodney Smith Jr. I’m sure you have all heard of him. What? You haven’t? Rodney Smith Jr. came up with an amazing idea. He wanted to raise boys into men, girls into women AND help those in need. How does he do this? He created a nonprofit called Raising Men and Women Lawn Care Service that encourages them to take the 50-yard challenge. They are challenged to cut 50 lawns FREE for the elderly, disabled, single parents, veterans, & anyone in need of help in your town. At each level of 10 they receive a new t-shirt of a different color and when they reach 50 lawns, the come to visit the boy or girl and present them both their black shirt to mark 50 lawns and give them a brand-new lawn mower, weed eater & blower! How cool is that? They are now in all 50 states, 8 countries, and have thousands of kids mowing lawns for people who need help. In the winter, they shovel snow, and, in the fall, they rake leaves. They are truly making a difference in the world. Rodney Smith Jr. has made the world better for the thousands of children who are giving back, for their parents, and for the tens of thousands of people who get their services.
Steve Jobs had another important quote for this context. He said, “We’re here to put a dent in the universe. Otherwise, why else even be here?” Each of us has the ability to put a dent in the universe. As it says in Pirkei Avot (Ethics of our Fathers), Chapter 2:16; “(Rabbi Tarfon) used to say… It is not up to you to finish the task, but you are not free to avoid it.” Our job is to participate in the job that Adam and Eve started. Making the world as close to the Garden of Eden as possible. What are you going to do today to make the world a better place? What are your random acts of kindness going to be? What impact will you make today. We all have the opportunity to change the world a little bit every day. The questions is are you going to do your part?
